Taylor swift angrily say so many people want my relationship with Travis Kelce to be trashed and broken. If you are a fan of mine and you want my relationship to continue and stand strong, let me hear you say a big YES!”…

in part, “@taylorswift13 has chosen to reignite an old exchange […] I didn’t feel the need to comment a few days ago, and I’m actually really embarrassed and mortified to be doing it right now, but because she continues to speak on it, I feel I’m left without a choice but to respond because she is actually lying.”

But in the years since, Taylor has learned to shake off all the drama. In fact while on her Eras Tour this year, the 33-year-old has made light of the Kanye feud on multiple occasions. And indeed, her romance with the Kansas City Chiefs tight end has taken center stage for Swifties and NFL fans alike—a level of publicity the Midnights artist isn’t shying away from.

“When you say a relationship is public, that means I’m going to see him do what he loves, we’re showing up for each other, other people are there and we don’t care,” she added to TIME. “The opposite of that is you have to go to an extreme amount of effort to make sure no one knows that you’re seeing someone. And we’re just proud of each other.”